Month: July 2025

Minding the Master

Minding the Master

In our rapid-fire, demanding world, it’s easy to get caught up in endless to-do lists, urgent tasks, and the constant clamor for our attention. This relentless pace often leaves us feeling overwhelmed, stressed, and anxious. The 21st century, with its continuous connectivity, information overload, and societal pressures, has seen a significant rise in anxiety. From the gnawing financial and economic fears that keep us up at night, to worries about the future of Social Security benefits, the struggle of underemployment, and the dread of health scares, anxiety has become a pervasive undercurrent in modern life. The unsettling reality of environmental abnormalities and the deeply personal pains of singleness or marital problems can compound this burden, sometimes leading to a profound sense of hopelessness. We often find ourselves busy, but are we busy with the right things, or are we simply trying to outrun our anxieties?

Luke 10:38-42 presents a timeless encounter in the home of Martha and Mary, offering a profound lesson on priorities. Jesus visits their home, and their responses reveal two distinct approaches to His presence, one of which is clearlyburdened by anxiety. This passage challenges us to consider what it truly means to “mind the Master”—to prioritize listening to Jesus above all other good, but lesser, things, especially when the anxieties of life threaten to consume us.

Martha’s Distraction:

Martha’s intentions were not just good; they were rooted in deeply ingrained cultural values. In first-century Jewish society, hospitality (Hebrew: hakhnasat orehim) was not merely good manners but a moral institution and a sacred duty. It was considered a great mitzvah (commandment) and an expression of loving-kindness. Hosts were obligated to provide lavishly for guests, offering food, water for washing dusty feet, and shelter. Abraham, for instance, is a biblical paragon of hospitality, eagerly running to meet and serve his unexpected guests (Genesis 18:1-8). The reputation of a household, and even a community, could hinge on its ability to offer generous hospitality. As the likely head of the house, Martha felt the immense weight of this expectation. She was diligent, taking on the responsibility of preparing a significant meal for Jesus and His disciples—a task that would have been physically demanding and time-consuming. This pressure to perform perfectly and meet such high cultural standards became a primary source of her internal worry.

Her service, though noble and culturally expected, became a source of distraction and overwhelming anxiety. The Greek word periespato, translated as “distracted” (Luke 10:40, NIV), literally means to be “pulled or dragged in different directions.” Martha was being pulled by the numerous tasks, the intense pressure to perform perfectly, and the sheer volume of work required for such an important guest. This internal pulling and scattering of her focus directly led to her anxious state. Her anxiety manifested as worry, frustration, and a sense of being overwhelmed. Her complaint to Jesus—”Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!” (Luke 10:40, NIV)—reveals not just a desire for assistance, but a deep-seated stress, irritation, and perhaps a feeling of unfairness or unappreciation, all hallmarks of an anxious mind. She was consumed by the “many preparations” (Luke 10:40) and the fear of falling short of her cultural duty.

This narrative highlights how our good intentions and diligent service can sometimes lead us away from what is most important, especially when driven by external pressures or internal perfectionism. Are we so busy for God that we neglect being with God, allowing our actions to be fueled by worry rather than peace? What “many things” distract us and drive our anxiety, preventing us from focusing on the main thing and finding peace in His presence?

Mary’s Devotion:

In stark contrast to Martha, Mary’s posture signifies humility, reverence, and a profound desire to learn. Sitting at Jesus’ feet was the position of a disciple learning from a Rabbi—a role highly unusual for a woman in that cultural context, yet one she embraced wholeheartedly. Her focus was singular: listening intently to the words of Jesus. She understood the unique and precious opportunity before her, choosing to engage with the source of true peace amidst potential chaos. Mary recognized that the presence of Jesus and His teaching was more important than the elaborate preparation of a meal, no matter how necessary it seemed or how much cultural pressure there was. She chose intimacy and spiritual nourishment over practical tasks, finding peace and tranquility in His presence rather than succumbing to the pressure and anxiety of the moment. Her choice reflects a spiritual “mindfulness” that centers on Christ.

What does it look like for us to “sit at Jesus’ feet” in our daily lives, particularly when facing the anxieties of today? It’s about intentional presence that calms our fears, reorients our priorities, and anchors us in a tumultuous world.

“But one thing is necessary,” Jesus declares. “Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her”(Luke 10:42, NIV). This is the core message. Amid many good things, there is one best thing that truly addresses our deepest needs and anxieties. The spiritual nourishment Mary received from Jesus was eternal and lasting, providing a peace that worldly tasks and accomplishments cannot. This peace offers a profound contrast to Martha’s temporary, anxiety-laden efforts. It is the ultimate antidote to the pervasive worry of life.

Jesus’ Gentle Correction: The One Thing Needed for Freedom from Anxiety

Jesus’ response to Martha is tender yet direct: “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one” (Luke 10:41-42, NIV). He sees her heart and her internal struggle, directly naming her anxiety and the burden she carries. He doesn’t condemn her desire to serve, but the worry that has consumed her. He points out that her frantic activity has produced anxiety, suggesting a better way to live free from such burdens by shifting her focus from the overwhelming “many things” to the singular “one thing.”

What is that “one thing” for us? It is our relationship with Jesus, our communion with Him, and our obedience to His word. Everything else flows from this and is the ultimate antidote to our anxieties. We must guard this “good portion”against the demands and distractions of the world, choosing peace over worry.

Choosing to “Mind the Master”

The story of Martha and Mary is not about condemning service, but about prioritizing the source of all service—Jesus Himself—as the ultimate remedy for our anxieties and worries. The title “Minding the Master” encapsulates the core message of Luke 10:38-42. To “mind” means to pay attention to, to obey, to care for, and to be concerned with. It implies a conscious and deliberate focus. In this context, “Minding the Master” means intentionally prioritizing Jesus—His presence, His words, and His will—above all the demands and distractions of life. It means choosing to sit at His feet, to listen to Him, and to allow His peace to govern our hearts, rather than being consumed by the “many things” that lead to anxiety. In truly minding Him, we find freedom from the grip of worry.

In our lives, we will always have “many things” vying for our attention and contributing to our anxiety, from financial strain to health concerns, and societal pressures to personal struggles. The challenge is to discern the “one thing” that is truly necessary and offers lasting peace. Are we truly “minding the Master” by making Him our ultimate priority, allowing His presence to calm our troubled hearts and minds?

Let us take time to be still and listen to Jesus, especially when anxiety mounts. Let us evaluate our daily schedules and identify what distractions steal our focus from Him and feed our anxiety. Let us choose the “good portion” daily—intentional time in His presence, soaking in His word, and allowing His peace to guard our hearts and minds.

Lord, help us to be like Mary, choosing the better part. Deliver us from the anxiety of many things, and draw us into deeper communion with You, the one thing necessary, that we may find true peace in Your presence.

References

* Brown, C. (Ed.). (1976). Dictionary of New Testament Theology. Zondervan. (For periespato)

* Keener, C. S. (1993). The IVP Bible Background Commentary: New Testament. InterVarsity Press. (For cultural context of hospitality and women as disciples)

* Longenecker, R. N. (2016). The Expositor’s Bible Commentary (Revised Edition): Luke. Zondervan Academic. (For general commentary on Luke 10:38-42)

* Strong, J. (2009). Strong’s Exhaustive Concordance of the Bible. Hendrickson Publishers. (For Greek word definitions)

Remember

Remember

When challenges mount and fears loom large in the whirlwind of life, it’s easy to feel adrift, as if we’re facing insurmountable odds alone. The weight of present troubles can obscure our vision, making us forget the very source of our strength and hope. Yet, the ancient words of King David in Psalm 27:1-6 offer a profound antidote to this despair: “Remember.”

David, a man intimately acquainted with adversity – from facing giants and fleeing a jealous king to enduring betrayal and war – begins this psalm not with a lament, but with a resounding declaration of confidence: “The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?” (Psalm 27:1). This isn’t a naive optimism, but a battle-tested faith rooted in memory.

David’s confidence isn’t abstract; it’s grounded in his past experiences. He recalls, “When evildoers came against me to devour my flesh, my foes and my enemies stumbled and fell” (Psalm 27:2). He had seen God’s hand move, time and again, turning the tide against seemingly overwhelming forces. It’s in these moments of divine intervention, these countless deliverances from troubles that seemed impossible to overcome, that we find a powerful testament to God’s existence and His active interaction in our lives.

Think about it: can any person truly navigate the “numerous obstacles” of life – the unexpected illnesses, the crushing losses, the sudden betrayals, the financial ruin – without some form of support? While human support is vital, there are moments when only a divine hand can provide the light in the deepest darkness, the salvation from utter despair, and the stronghold against forces that would otherwise consume us. When we look back at our own lives, at the times we somehow made it through, when a door opened unexpectedly, when peace settled in the midst of chaos, or when strength appeared from nowhere, we are witnessing God’s faithfulness. These are not mere coincidences; they are echoes of His promise, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”

David’s life was a tapestry woven with such divine interventions. Before he ever wore a crown, as a young shepherd boy, he faced beasts that threatened his flock. He didn’t just survive; he conquered. He remembered how God enabled him to rescue his lambs from the jaws of a lion and a bear (1 Samuel 17:34-37). These weren’t minor skirmishes; they were life-or-death struggles where a shepherd boy, armed with only a staff and sling, triumphed over formidable predators.

And then came the ultimate test: Goliath, the Philistine giant, defying the armies of Israel. While seasoned warriors trembled, young David, fueled by the memory of God’s past faithfulness, stepped forward. He declared, “The Lord who delivered me from the paw of the lion and from the paw of the bear will deliver me from the hand of this Philistine” (1 Samuel 17:37). His victory over Goliath was not merely a physical feat; it was a profound act of faith, born from a deep well of remembered deliverances.

David’s reflection in Psalm 27 was likely not about one isolated occurrence, but about journeying through the halls of his memory, recalling each instance of God’s powerful intervention. This process wasn’t just nostalgic; it was an act of worship. Each recalled victory became a fresh reason to honor God with praise, solidifying his confidence that the God who had been faithful in the past would surely be faithful in the present and future. This constant act of remembering and praising transformed his past struggles into pillars of present strength, allowing him to declare with conviction, “Though an army encamp against me, my heart shall not fear; though war rise up against me, yet I will be confident” (Psalm 27:3).

This divine support is not just about external rescue; it’s also about internal transformation. The Apostle Paul reminds us in 2 Timothy 1:7, “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” This verse beautifully complements David’s fearless stance. When we remember God’s faithfulness, we are empowered to overcome the spirit of fear that seeks to paralyze us. We receive a spirit of power, enabling us to face challenges with courage; a spirit of love, allowing us to respond with compassion even in difficult circumstances; and a sound mind, granting us clarity and wisdom when confusion reigns. This inner fortitude is itself a profound deliverance, a testament to God’s ongoing work within us.

It’s tempting to wish away our troubles, to pray for their immediate removal. But some of life’s most profound growth happens not by avoiding the storm, but by learning to lean into it, trusting that God is present and purposeful in the midst of it. David’s psalm isn’t just about escaping trouble; it is about finding God in trouble. His “one thing” was not freedom from enemies, but to “dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the Lord and to inquire in his temple” (Psalm 27:4). He sought intimacy with God despite the surrounding chaos.

When we choose to lean into our trials, when we consciously seek God’s presence and wisdom within the difficulty, we allow Him to refine us. It’s in the crucible of adversity that our faith is tested and strengthened, like gold purified by fire.We learn resilience, patience, and a deeper reliance on God than we ever thought possible. The very things that threaten to break us can, with God’s divine support, become the tools He uses to build us into stronger, more compassionate, and more faithful individuals. We grow not just through the trials, but because of them, as God uses them to shape our character and deepen our understanding of His unwavering faithfulness.

So, when the “army” encamps against you, and “war rises up,” take a moment to pause. Remember. Remember the countless times God has been your light, your salvation, your stronghold. Remember the unseen hand that guided you, the peace that sustained you, the strength that appeared when you had none left. These memories are not just personal anecdotes; they are evidence of a living, interacting God.

Let the spirit of power, love, and a sound mind replace the spirit of fear. And as you lean into the present challenge, trust that the same God who delivered you before is actively working to grow you now. For in remembering His faithfulness, we find not just hope for today, but an unshakeable confidence for all our tomorrows.

In All Thy Ways: Finding God’s Unexpected Path to Healing

In All Thy Ways: Finding God’s Unexpected Path to Healing

We live in a world that often celebrates the grand, the complex, and the highly visible. We strive for success, curate our online personas, and often believe that with enough resources, intelligence, or connections, any problem can be solved. But what happens when we encounter a problem that money can’t buy a solution for, a status can’t overcome, or influence can’t fix?

Our anchor text, 2 Kings 5:1-15, introduces us to Naaman, a man who, by all worldly measures, had it all. He was the commander of the Syrian army, a man of immense stature and success, even credited by the Lord for victories. He was the ancient equivalent of a CEO, a military general, a social media influencer with millions of followers. Yet, beneath the polished exterior, Naaman carried a devastating secret: he was a leper. This incurable disease would eventually lead to isolation, disfigurement, and death. It’s a stark reminder that human achievement, no matter how great, cannot overcome every human limitation.

This brings us to a crucial question: When our greatest strengths fail us, and our biggest problems seem insurmountable, where do we turn for a solution? How does God intervene in such situations?

The Unexpected Messenger of Hope

Naaman’s hope doesn’t come from his king, his advisors, or his vast wealth. It comes from the most improbable source: a young, unnamed Israelite girl, captured in a raid and serving as a slave in his household (2 Kings 5:2-3).

Imagine getting life-changing advice not from a TED Talk speaker or a best-selling author, but from a child, a janitor, or a new immigrant. God delights in using the overlooked, the marginalized, those without a platform, to deliver His most profound messages. This young girl, snatched from her home and forced into servitude by Naaman’s people, could have been consumed by bitterness. Yet, she shows remarkable empathy for her captor, simply stating, “If only my master would see the prophet who is in Samaria! He would cure him of his leprosy.” Her faith wasn’t just a wish; it was a certainty.

In a world saturated with information, misinformation, and skepticism, do we have the courage and conviction of this unnamed girl to speak simply and truthfully about the hope we have in God, even to those who might seem to have everything?

The “App” That Doesn’t Work vs. God’s Simple Command

Naaman, accustomed to power and protocol, takes the “top-down” approach (2 Kings 5:4-5). He goes to his master, the King of Aram, who then writes a letter to the King of Israel. Naaman arrives with immense wealth—a king’s ransom—expecting to buy his healing. How often do we try to “app-ify” our spiritual problems? We seek complex solutions, expensive programs, or influential connections, believing that a “high-level” approach is necessary for a “big” problem. We want a quick fix, a formula, a transaction.

But the King of Israel’s reaction is telling: he tears his clothes in despair. “Am I God, to kill and to make alive?” He recognizes his utter powerlessness in the face of leprosy. This vividly illustrates that no amount of human authority, political power, or technological advancement can solve our deepest, most fundamental spiritual problems. We can build skyscrapers, cure diseases, and connect the world, but we cannot heal a broken spirit or cleanse a sinful heart on our own.

Naaman’s conventional, “top-down” approach has reached its absolute limit. The King of Israel’s helplessness creates a void that only God can fill. This prepares Naaman, and us, for the radical simplicity of God’s true solution, which will come through Elisha. Naaman is about to learn that God’s way is often not about complexity, cost, or prestige, but abouthumble obedience to a seemingly ordinary command, leading to an extraordinary transformation.

In All Thy Ways: Embracing God’s Unexpected Ways to Healing

This narrative powerfully illustrates the timeless wisdom of Proverbs 3:5-6: “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.”

Naaman, a man who relied on his own understanding and conventional wisdom, had to learn to trust in the Lord and acknowledge Him “in all his ways.” When Elisha sent a messenger with the simple instruction to “Go and wash in the Jordan seven times” (2 Kings 5:10), Naaman was initially furious. This wasn’t the dramatic, impressive display he expected from a prophet. His pride was wounded, and his expectations of a grand solution were shattered. Yet, it was the humble counsel of his servants that led him to obey this simple, counter-intuitive command.

When he finally humbled himself and dipped seven times in the Jordan, his flesh was restored like the flesh of a little child, and he was clean (2 Kings 5:14). This physical healing was followed by a profound spiritual realization as he declared, “Indeed, now I know that there is no God in all the earth, except in Israel” (2 Kings 5:15).

What “leprosy” (deep, incurable problems) do we face in our lives today – the relentless anxiety, the unshakeable addictions, the brokenness in our relationships, the spiritual emptiness that no amount of “likes” or achievements can fill?

Are we open to God working through unexpected people or simple means, or do we insist on our own “grand” solutions, the latest self-help trend, or the most technologically advanced fix? Are we willing to humble ourselves, set aside our pride and our need for control, and listen to the “little voices” – perhaps a quiet prompting, a simple word from a friend, or a verse from Scripture – that might be pointing us to God’s solution?

The Ultimate Healer: Jesus Christ

Naaman’s physical cleansing foreshadows the far greater spiritual cleansing offered through Jesus Christ. Just as Naaman needed to be washed in the Jordan to cleanse his flesh, we need to be washed by the blood of Jesus to be cleansed from the “leprosy” of sin (Romans 3:23, 6:23).

Like Naaman, who was a Gentile, Jesus’ ministry extended beyond the Jewish people, demonstrating God’s universal love and desire for all to be saved (Luke 4:27, where Jesus himself references Naaman’s healing, emphasizing God’s grace to outsiders). Jesus often healed in simple, unexpected ways, just as Elisha did. He didn’t always perform grand spectacles but often used a touch, a word, or even mud and spit, requiring faith and obedience from those he healed (e.g., the blind man in John 9). His power is not about human showmanship, but divine authority.

The humility Naaman learned is central to following Christ. In our self-sufficient age, we must humble ourselves, acknowledge our profound need for a Savior, and trust in His simple, yet profound, call to faith and repentance. It’s not about what we can do or buy, but about what He has done for us.

In a world that constantly tells us to strive, to achieve, to control, Jesus invites us to surrender. Like Naaman, let us be willing to lay aside our pride and preconceived notions, and embrace God’s often simple, yet powerful, instructions for healing and transformation. Trust that God’s way, revealed ultimately in Jesus Christ, is always the best way to find truecleansing, lasting freedom, and eternal life. Indeed, “In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths.”

Don’t Fight Your Toxic Co-Worker—Let Them Be Your Unofficial Spy!

Don’t Fight Your Toxic Co-Worker—Let Them Be Your Unofficial Spy!

Ah, the office tyrant. We all know them, and we’ve all been subjected to their unique brand of charm (read: condescension and rudeness). They’re the self-proclaimed president of “Jerks Are Us,” yet somehow, they’ve managed to keep their job longer than that one sad office plant in the corner. You’ve fantasized about putting them in their place, perhaps with a well-aimed stapler or a passive-aggressive Post-it note. But hold on to your horses, because I’m here to tell you: don’t do that!

Yes, you read that right. That obnoxious colleague, the one who makes your blood pressure rise faster than the company’s stock value during a tech boom, might just be your secret weapon. Unconventional? Absolutely. Brilliant? Potentially.

Your Office Irritant: The Inside Man You Never Knew You Needed

Think about it: disrespectful people might be nerve-wracking, but they have one undeniable quality—they always tell you what they’re thinking. And while it always sounds negative, their unsolicited opinions and sly put-downs can actually be a sign that you’re on the right track. Consider them your indirect, albeit incredibly grumpy, insider.

More often than not, the more insecure these office bullies get, the more erratic their behavior becomes. Their nonsensical rants and subtle jabs are likely a neon sign flashing: “You’re looking good in the eyes of those who matter!” So, before you start drafting that anonymous HR complaint, consider this: why get rid of a perfectly good (and free!) information source?

These “tazmanians” of the office world even have friends (yes, it’s a shocker, I know). And those friends, few as they may be, often have influence that directly impacts your workflow. Your obnoxious colleague, in their tireless pursuit of negativity, will inadvertently clue you into their friends’ thoughts and feelings about you, the company, management, and basically anything else under the sun. Read between the lines of their nasty comments and rude emails, and you’ll uncover a treasure trove of insights. It’s the classic adage: “Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer.”

They never run out of opinions, so stop trying to shut them up! Let them talk, let them make fools of themselves. The truth is, if you eliminate this particular devil, another one will simply take its place. At least you know this one.

How to Harness Your Human Alarm Bell

So, how do you manage this invaluable, albeit irritating, resource?

  • Maintain Your Professionalism (Always): Do not stoop to their level. Your stellar behavior, emails, Zoom calls, and verbal communication should be impeccable. In fact, use AI to assist you with crafting clear, concise, and professional communications. Let them be the loud, unprofessional one.
  • Consider Generational Communication Styles: Sometimes, what seems rude is simply a difference in how generations communicate. While this doesn’t excuse outright disrespect, understanding it can help you decode their messages more accurately.
  • Don’t Let Them Dethrone You: Your toxic co-worker secretly admires you. They fantasize about the respect and recognition you receive. Their erratic behavior is often a desperate attempt to knock you off your pedestal. Don’t give them the satisfaction of stooping to their level.
  • Treat Them Like the Child They Are: Seriously. Approach their outbursts and rudeness with the calm, measured response of a parent dealing with a toddler’s tantrum. Every so often, you might even need to explain, patiently and clearly, why the parent (you) knows best.

Embrace the chaos. Let your toxic co-worker be rude. Because underneath all that negativity lies a goldmine of information, just waiting for you to uncover it.

The Unexpected Goldmine: A Concluding Thought

So, the next time your office’s resident grump unleashes a volley of negativity or a subtly passive-aggressive email, resist the urge to deploy your well-rehearsed eye-roll. Instead, consider this: they might just be giving you a priceless gift wrapped in a prickly, uninviting package.

In a world where corporate jargon often obscures true intentions, your toxic colleague offers a refreshing (albeit jarring) dose of unvarnished opinion. Their very rudeness can be a highly sensitive barometer, signaling shifts in power dynamics, simmering resentments, or even just what someone really thinks about your latest project. Think of them as your human lie detector, only instead of “lie,” it’s “everything they’re too insecure to say politely.”

By mastering the art of professional detachment and strategic observation, you transform a hindrance into a helpful (don’t forget free!) intelligence asset. You gain insights into the true pulse of the office, understanding unspoken alliances and hidden agendas—all without having to lift a finger or engage in tiresome office politics. You get to maintain your composure, your dignity, and your stellar reputation, while they… well, they just keep being themselves. And in this particular scenario, that’s perfectly fine.

So, let them be rude. Let them vent. Let them inadvertently spill the beans. Because in the grand scheme of your career, that seemingly impossible colleague might just be the most valuable, albeit annoying, mentor you’ll ever have.