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Minding the Master

Minding the Master

In our rapid-fire, demanding world, it’s easy to get caught up in endless to-do lists, urgent tasks, and the constant clamor for our attention. This relentless pace often leaves us feeling overwhelmed, stressed, and anxious. The 21st century, with its continuous connectivity, information overload, and societal pressures, has seen a significant rise in anxiety. From the gnawing financial and economic fears that keep us up at night, to worries about the future of Social Security benefits, the struggle of underemployment, and the dread of health scares, anxiety has become a pervasive undercurrent in modern life. The unsettling reality of environmental abnormalities and the deeply personal pains of singleness or marital problems can compound this burden, sometimes leading to a profound sense of hopelessness. We often find ourselves busy, but are we busy with the right things, or are we simply trying to outrun our anxieties?

Luke 10:38-42 presents a timeless encounter in the home of Martha and Mary, offering a profound lesson on priorities. Jesus visits their home, and their responses reveal two distinct approaches to His presence, one of which is clearlyburdened by anxiety. This passage challenges us to consider what it truly means to “mind the Master”—to prioritize listening to Jesus above all other good, but lesser, things, especially when the anxieties of life threaten to consume us.

Martha’s Distraction:

Martha’s intentions were not just good; they were rooted in deeply ingrained cultural values. In first-century Jewish society, hospitality (Hebrew: hakhnasat orehim) was not merely good manners but a moral institution and a sacred duty. It was considered a great mitzvah (commandment) and an expression of loving-kindness. Hosts were obligated to provide lavishly for guests, offering food, water for washing dusty feet, and shelter. Abraham, for instance, is a biblical paragon of hospitality, eagerly running to meet and serve his unexpected guests (Genesis 18:1-8). The reputation of a household, and even a community, could hinge on its ability to offer generous hospitality. As the likely head of the house, Martha felt the immense weight of this expectation. She was diligent, taking on the responsibility of preparing a significant meal for Jesus and His disciples—a task that would have been physically demanding and time-consuming. This pressure to perform perfectly and meet such high cultural standards became a primary source of her internal worry.

Her service, though noble and culturally expected, became a source of distraction and overwhelming anxiety. The Greek word periespato, translated as “distracted” (Luke 10:40, NIV), literally means to be “pulled or dragged in different directions.” Martha was being pulled by the numerous tasks, the intense pressure to perform perfectly, and the sheer volume of work required for such an important guest. This internal pulling and scattering of her focus directly led to her anxious state. Her anxiety manifested as worry, frustration, and a sense of being overwhelmed. Her complaint to Jesus—”Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!” (Luke 10:40, NIV)—reveals not just a desire for assistance, but a deep-seated stress, irritation, and perhaps a feeling of unfairness or unappreciation, all hallmarks of an anxious mind. She was consumed by the “many preparations” (Luke 10:40) and the fear of falling short of her cultural duty.

This narrative highlights how our good intentions and diligent service can sometimes lead us away from what is most important, especially when driven by external pressures or internal perfectionism. Are we so busy for God that we neglect being with God, allowing our actions to be fueled by worry rather than peace? What “many things” distract us and drive our anxiety, preventing us from focusing on the main thing and finding peace in His presence?

Mary’s Devotion:

In stark contrast to Martha, Mary’s posture signifies humility, reverence, and a profound desire to learn. Sitting at Jesus’ feet was the position of a disciple learning from a Rabbi—a role highly unusual for a woman in that cultural context, yet one she embraced wholeheartedly. Her focus was singular: listening intently to the words of Jesus. She understood the unique and precious opportunity before her, choosing to engage with the source of true peace amidst potential chaos. Mary recognized that the presence of Jesus and His teaching was more important than the elaborate preparation of a meal, no matter how necessary it seemed or how much cultural pressure there was. She chose intimacy and spiritual nourishment over practical tasks, finding peace and tranquility in His presence rather than succumbing to the pressure and anxiety of the moment. Her choice reflects a spiritual “mindfulness” that centers on Christ.

What does it look like for us to “sit at Jesus’ feet” in our daily lives, particularly when facing the anxieties of today? It’s about intentional presence that calms our fears, reorients our priorities, and anchors us in a tumultuous world.

“But one thing is necessary,” Jesus declares. “Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her”(Luke 10:42, NIV). This is the core message. Amid many good things, there is one best thing that truly addresses our deepest needs and anxieties. The spiritual nourishment Mary received from Jesus was eternal and lasting, providing a peace that worldly tasks and accomplishments cannot. This peace offers a profound contrast to Martha’s temporary, anxiety-laden efforts. It is the ultimate antidote to the pervasive worry of life.

Jesus’ Gentle Correction: The One Thing Needed for Freedom from Anxiety

Jesus’ response to Martha is tender yet direct: “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one” (Luke 10:41-42, NIV). He sees her heart and her internal struggle, directly naming her anxiety and the burden she carries. He doesn’t condemn her desire to serve, but the worry that has consumed her. He points out that her frantic activity has produced anxiety, suggesting a better way to live free from such burdens by shifting her focus from the overwhelming “many things” to the singular “one thing.”

What is that “one thing” for us? It is our relationship with Jesus, our communion with Him, and our obedience to His word. Everything else flows from this and is the ultimate antidote to our anxieties. We must guard this “good portion”against the demands and distractions of the world, choosing peace over worry.

Choosing to “Mind the Master”

The story of Martha and Mary is not about condemning service, but about prioritizing the source of all service—Jesus Himself—as the ultimate remedy for our anxieties and worries. The title “Minding the Master” encapsulates the core message of Luke 10:38-42. To “mind” means to pay attention to, to obey, to care for, and to be concerned with. It implies a conscious and deliberate focus. In this context, “Minding the Master” means intentionally prioritizing Jesus—His presence, His words, and His will—above all the demands and distractions of life. It means choosing to sit at His feet, to listen to Him, and to allow His peace to govern our hearts, rather than being consumed by the “many things” that lead to anxiety. In truly minding Him, we find freedom from the grip of worry.

In our lives, we will always have “many things” vying for our attention and contributing to our anxiety, from financial strain to health concerns, and societal pressures to personal struggles. The challenge is to discern the “one thing” that is truly necessary and offers lasting peace. Are we truly “minding the Master” by making Him our ultimate priority, allowing His presence to calm our troubled hearts and minds?

Let us take time to be still and listen to Jesus, especially when anxiety mounts. Let us evaluate our daily schedules and identify what distractions steal our focus from Him and feed our anxiety. Let us choose the “good portion” daily—intentional time in His presence, soaking in His word, and allowing His peace to guard our hearts and minds.

Lord, help us to be like Mary, choosing the better part. Deliver us from the anxiety of many things, and draw us into deeper communion with You, the one thing necessary, that we may find true peace in Your presence.

References

* Brown, C. (Ed.). (1976). Dictionary of New Testament Theology. Zondervan. (For periespato)

* Keener, C. S. (1993). The IVP Bible Background Commentary: New Testament. InterVarsity Press. (For cultural context of hospitality and women as disciples)

* Longenecker, R. N. (2016). The Expositor’s Bible Commentary (Revised Edition): Luke. Zondervan Academic. (For general commentary on Luke 10:38-42)

* Strong, J. (2009). Strong’s Exhaustive Concordance of the Bible. Hendrickson Publishers. (For Greek word definitions)

Remember

Remember

When challenges mount and fears loom large in the whirlwind of life, it’s easy to feel adrift, as if we’re facing insurmountable odds alone. The weight of present troubles can obscure our vision, making us forget the very source of our strength and hope. Yet, the ancient words of King David in Psalm 27:1-6 offer a profound antidote to this despair: “Remember.”

David, a man intimately acquainted with adversity – from facing giants and fleeing a jealous king to enduring betrayal and war – begins this psalm not with a lament, but with a resounding declaration of confidence: “The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?” (Psalm 27:1). This isn’t a naive optimism, but a battle-tested faith rooted in memory.

David’s confidence isn’t abstract; it’s grounded in his past experiences. He recalls, “When evildoers came against me to devour my flesh, my foes and my enemies stumbled and fell” (Psalm 27:2). He had seen God’s hand move, time and again, turning the tide against seemingly overwhelming forces. It’s in these moments of divine intervention, these countless deliverances from troubles that seemed impossible to overcome, that we find a powerful testament to God’s existence and His active interaction in our lives.

Think about it: can any person truly navigate the “numerous obstacles” of life – the unexpected illnesses, the crushing losses, the sudden betrayals, the financial ruin – without some form of support? While human support is vital, there are moments when only a divine hand can provide the light in the deepest darkness, the salvation from utter despair, and the stronghold against forces that would otherwise consume us. When we look back at our own lives, at the times we somehow made it through, when a door opened unexpectedly, when peace settled in the midst of chaos, or when strength appeared from nowhere, we are witnessing God’s faithfulness. These are not mere coincidences; they are echoes of His promise, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”

David’s life was a tapestry woven with such divine interventions. Before he ever wore a crown, as a young shepherd boy, he faced beasts that threatened his flock. He didn’t just survive; he conquered. He remembered how God enabled him to rescue his lambs from the jaws of a lion and a bear (1 Samuel 17:34-37). These weren’t minor skirmishes; they were life-or-death struggles where a shepherd boy, armed with only a staff and sling, triumphed over formidable predators.

And then came the ultimate test: Goliath, the Philistine giant, defying the armies of Israel. While seasoned warriors trembled, young David, fueled by the memory of God’s past faithfulness, stepped forward. He declared, “The Lord who delivered me from the paw of the lion and from the paw of the bear will deliver me from the hand of this Philistine” (1 Samuel 17:37). His victory over Goliath was not merely a physical feat; it was a profound act of faith, born from a deep well of remembered deliverances.

David’s reflection in Psalm 27 was likely not about one isolated occurrence, but about journeying through the halls of his memory, recalling each instance of God’s powerful intervention. This process wasn’t just nostalgic; it was an act of worship. Each recalled victory became a fresh reason to honor God with praise, solidifying his confidence that the God who had been faithful in the past would surely be faithful in the present and future. This constant act of remembering and praising transformed his past struggles into pillars of present strength, allowing him to declare with conviction, “Though an army encamp against me, my heart shall not fear; though war rise up against me, yet I will be confident” (Psalm 27:3).

This divine support is not just about external rescue; it’s also about internal transformation. The Apostle Paul reminds us in 2 Timothy 1:7, “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” This verse beautifully complements David’s fearless stance. When we remember God’s faithfulness, we are empowered to overcome the spirit of fear that seeks to paralyze us. We receive a spirit of power, enabling us to face challenges with courage; a spirit of love, allowing us to respond with compassion even in difficult circumstances; and a sound mind, granting us clarity and wisdom when confusion reigns. This inner fortitude is itself a profound deliverance, a testament to God’s ongoing work within us.

It’s tempting to wish away our troubles, to pray for their immediate removal. But some of life’s most profound growth happens not by avoiding the storm, but by learning to lean into it, trusting that God is present and purposeful in the midst of it. David’s psalm isn’t just about escaping trouble; it is about finding God in trouble. His “one thing” was not freedom from enemies, but to “dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the Lord and to inquire in his temple” (Psalm 27:4). He sought intimacy with God despite the surrounding chaos.

When we choose to lean into our trials, when we consciously seek God’s presence and wisdom within the difficulty, we allow Him to refine us. It’s in the crucible of adversity that our faith is tested and strengthened, like gold purified by fire.We learn resilience, patience, and a deeper reliance on God than we ever thought possible. The very things that threaten to break us can, with God’s divine support, become the tools He uses to build us into stronger, more compassionate, and more faithful individuals. We grow not just through the trials, but because of them, as God uses them to shape our character and deepen our understanding of His unwavering faithfulness.

So, when the “army” encamps against you, and “war rises up,” take a moment to pause. Remember. Remember the countless times God has been your light, your salvation, your stronghold. Remember the unseen hand that guided you, the peace that sustained you, the strength that appeared when you had none left. These memories are not just personal anecdotes; they are evidence of a living, interacting God.

Let the spirit of power, love, and a sound mind replace the spirit of fear. And as you lean into the present challenge, trust that the same God who delivered you before is actively working to grow you now. For in remembering His faithfulness, we find not just hope for today, but an unshakeable confidence for all our tomorrows.

Don’t Fight Your Toxic Co-Worker—Let Them Be Your Unofficial Spy!

Don’t Fight Your Toxic Co-Worker—Let Them Be Your Unofficial Spy!

Ah, the office tyrant. We all know them, and we’ve all been subjected to their unique brand of charm (read: condescension and rudeness). They’re the self-proclaimed president of “Jerks Are Us,” yet somehow, they’ve managed to keep their job longer than that one sad office plant in the corner. You’ve fantasized about putting them in their place, perhaps with a well-aimed stapler or a passive-aggressive Post-it note. But hold on to your horses, because I’m here to tell you: don’t do that!

Yes, you read that right. That obnoxious colleague, the one who makes your blood pressure rise faster than the company’s stock value during a tech boom, might just be your secret weapon. Unconventional? Absolutely. Brilliant? Potentially.

Your Office Irritant: The Inside Man You Never Knew You Needed

Think about it: disrespectful people might be nerve-wracking, but they have one undeniable quality—they always tell you what they’re thinking. And while it always sounds negative, their unsolicited opinions and sly put-downs can actually be a sign that you’re on the right track. Consider them your indirect, albeit incredibly grumpy, insider.

More often than not, the more insecure these office bullies get, the more erratic their behavior becomes. Their nonsensical rants and subtle jabs are likely a neon sign flashing: “You’re looking good in the eyes of those who matter!” So, before you start drafting that anonymous HR complaint, consider this: why get rid of a perfectly good (and free!) information source?

These “tazmanians” of the office world even have friends (yes, it’s a shocker, I know). And those friends, few as they may be, often have influence that directly impacts your workflow. Your obnoxious colleague, in their tireless pursuit of negativity, will inadvertently clue you into their friends’ thoughts and feelings about you, the company, management, and basically anything else under the sun. Read between the lines of their nasty comments and rude emails, and you’ll uncover a treasure trove of insights. It’s the classic adage: “Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer.”

They never run out of opinions, so stop trying to shut them up! Let them talk, let them make fools of themselves. The truth is, if you eliminate this particular devil, another one will simply take its place. At least you know this one.

How to Harness Your Human Alarm Bell

So, how do you manage this invaluable, albeit irritating, resource?

  • Maintain Your Professionalism (Always): Do not stoop to their level. Your stellar behavior, emails, Zoom calls, and verbal communication should be impeccable. In fact, use AI to assist you with crafting clear, concise, and professional communications. Let them be the loud, unprofessional one.
  • Consider Generational Communication Styles: Sometimes, what seems rude is simply a difference in how generations communicate. While this doesn’t excuse outright disrespect, understanding it can help you decode their messages more accurately.
  • Don’t Let Them Dethrone You: Your toxic co-worker secretly admires you. They fantasize about the respect and recognition you receive. Their erratic behavior is often a desperate attempt to knock you off your pedestal. Don’t give them the satisfaction of stooping to their level.
  • Treat Them Like the Child They Are: Seriously. Approach their outbursts and rudeness with the calm, measured response of a parent dealing with a toddler’s tantrum. Every so often, you might even need to explain, patiently and clearly, why the parent (you) knows best.

Embrace the chaos. Let your toxic co-worker be rude. Because underneath all that negativity lies a goldmine of information, just waiting for you to uncover it.

The Unexpected Goldmine: A Concluding Thought

So, the next time your office’s resident grump unleashes a volley of negativity or a subtly passive-aggressive email, resist the urge to deploy your well-rehearsed eye-roll. Instead, consider this: they might just be giving you a priceless gift wrapped in a prickly, uninviting package.

In a world where corporate jargon often obscures true intentions, your toxic colleague offers a refreshing (albeit jarring) dose of unvarnished opinion. Their very rudeness can be a highly sensitive barometer, signaling shifts in power dynamics, simmering resentments, or even just what someone really thinks about your latest project. Think of them as your human lie detector, only instead of “lie,” it’s “everything they’re too insecure to say politely.”

By mastering the art of professional detachment and strategic observation, you transform a hindrance into a helpful (don’t forget free!) intelligence asset. You gain insights into the true pulse of the office, understanding unspoken alliances and hidden agendas—all without having to lift a finger or engage in tiresome office politics. You get to maintain your composure, your dignity, and your stellar reputation, while they… well, they just keep being themselves. And in this particular scenario, that’s perfectly fine.

So, let them be rude. Let them vent. Let them inadvertently spill the beans. Because in the grand scheme of your career, that seemingly impossible colleague might just be the most valuable, albeit annoying, mentor you’ll ever have.

Willful Faith

Willful Faith

Have you ever found yourself in a state where your emotions feel like a runaway train, and you’re merely a passenger, helpless to control its destructive course? Perhaps it’s anxiety gnawing at your peace, depression casting a long shadow over your days, or a general sense of discouragement that weighs heavily on your spirit. This universal cry of the downcast soul is precisely what the Psalmist captures in Psalm 42. It’s a raw, honest look into the heart of someone experiencing profound distress, not pretending or putting on a brave face, but grappling with a fundamental question. In Psalm 42:5 (NIV), we hear this poignant lament and a profound declaration: “Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God.” This single verse presents an internal struggle, a willful act, and a confident expectation. It introduces us to the concept of “Willful Faith”—not blind optimism or a dismissal of pain, but an active, intentional decision to engage our faith in the midst of struggle, choosing to believe and hope even when it feels unnatural.

The problem, then, is the downcast soul itself. The Psalmist asks, “Why, my soul, are you downcast?” This speaks to a general sadness, a feeling of being weighed down, perhaps by unfulfilled desires, loss, or sheer weariness. But he goes deeper, asking, “Why so disturbed within me?” This implies an inner turmoil, a restless anxiety, an agitation that disrupts peace. It’s the internal wrestling match, a swirl of doubts and fears. It is crucial to recognize and honestly identify these feelings in our own lives, normalizing them as experiences even devout people face. The danger of remaining in this state unchecked is that it can lead to despair, paralysis, bitterness, or even the abandonment of faith. We risk being defined by our feelings rather than by our identity in Christ. The Psalmist, however, makes a crucial move: self-interrogation. He doesn’t merely wallow; he asks why. This active examination of the source of his despair, rather than letting it consume him, is the essential first step in active faith. It is a refusal to passively accept his emotional state.

This leads us to the principle: “Put your hope in God.” This is not a gentle suggestion but a direct command from the Psalmist to his own soul. Herein lies the essence of willful faith—an act of the will, not merely a fleeting emotion. The “hope” spoken of here is not wishful thinking; it is a confident expectation firmly rooted in God’s unchanging character and unfailing promises. It’s based on what God has done and what He will surely do. The object of our hope is critical: “in God.” Not in changing circumstances, not in our own limited strength, not in the fallibility of others, but in God alone. To “put your hope” involves active steps. It means recalling God’s character, reminding ourselves of who He is: faithful, loving, powerful, just, sovereign, and intimately present. It involves remembering God’s past faithfulness, looking back at how He has shown up for us or others in seemingly impossible situations. It means resting on God’s promises found in Scripture—His unwavering care for His children, His provision, and His ultimate victory (Philippians 4:6-7, Romans 8:28). This willful part of faith also requires engaging in spiritual disciplines: crying out to God in prayer, pouring out our hearts; choosing to worship Him even when we don’t feel like it, allowing praise to shift our perspective; immersing ourselves in Scripture, letting God’s word speak truth into our situations; and seeking godly counsel and encouragement within a faith community.

The beautiful outcome of this willful act is the promise: “I will yet praise him.” This is not a present reality for the downcast Psalmist, but a future certainty, born from his resolute decision to hope in God. The word “yet” is profoundly powerful; it signifies that despite the current struggle, there will be a time of praise. It is a statement of faith and defiance against despair. The foundation of this future praise is deeply personal: “My Savior and my God.” He grounds his coming praise in who God is to him. “My Savior” speaks of the one who delivers, redeems, and rescues, pointing ultimately to Jesus Christ as the supreme Savior. “My God” reveals a personal relationship; this is not an abstract deity, but the God who is intimately involved in his life. The fruit of such willful faith is multifaceted: joy can coexist with sorrow, for willful faith doesn’t erase pain, but it allows peace to permeate it. It provides perseverance, the strength to keep going when all we want to do is give up. It grants a renewed perspective, shifting our gaze from our overwhelming problems to the all-powerful Problem-Solver. Ultimately, the goal is not just to feel better, but to truly be able to praise God for His faithfulness, even for guiding us through the darkest valleys.

The journey from a downcast soul to putting hope in God inevitably leads to future praise. Embracing willful faith is a daily, often hourly, choice. It is a spiritual muscle that requires consistent exercise. Crucially, it’s not about mustering strength on our own, but about inviting the Holy Spirit to empower our will to hope in God. So, when your soul feels downcast and disturbed, dare to ask yourself the Psalmist’s question, and then, with intentionality, command your soul: “Put your hope in God!” He is unequivocally worthy of your willful faith. He is faithful, even when our feelings betray us. “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit” (Romans 15:13).