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Your Pastor is a Gift from God

Your Pastor is a Gift from God

Many churchgoers and individuals alike often hold a superficial understanding of what the church truly is and how it functions within their lives. This ignorance frequently extends to a profound misunderstanding of the roles of faith leaders. When we fail to grasp the essence and purpose of the church, cultivating a healthy, reciprocal relationship with its leadership becomes nearly impossible. While most acknowledge that the church and its pastors exist to “serve” or “minister,” the practical “how” remains largely undefined in their minds.

Faith leaders are often perceived as figures attached to a particular building—like gears in an institutional machine—rather than as integral members of a spiritual family. To many, their pastor is akin to a distant relative at a family gathering: present, but not intimately known, consulted only in moments of crisis or when an urgent need, like a wedding venue, arises.

This prevailing perception leads to a significant forfeiture of invaluable support. We unknowingly relinquish a wealth of guidance and care when we neglect to establish a genuine relationship with the faith leaders “given to us.” The Apostle Paul, in Ephesians 4:11-13, illuminates this profound truth:

“So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors, and teachers, to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.”

The New Living Translation’s opening—”Now these are the gifts Christ gave to the church…”—underscores this revelation: pastors, alongside other spiritual guides, are not merely professionals or administrators but divine gifts from God Himself. The Lord Jesus Christ did not gift a structure or an organization; He gifted people as pastors. More profoundly, He gifted every believer a personal faith leader, both collectively within the body and individually.

Imagine the profound implications of this divine provision: we have the opportunity to unwrap a gift tailor-made for us. A curious exploration of the pastor’s role would reveal a treasure of knowledge, wisdom, care, understanding, and potent praying power. The realization that faith leaders possess the capacity to intercede on our behalf, approaching heaven with our concerns, is in itself a compelling reason to embrace and unravel this divine gift.

Once we embrace this incredible blessing, the true scope of its benefits, as outlined in Ephesians 4:11-13 and elaborated upon through further scriptural understanding, becomes clear:

  • Equipping God’s people for works of service: Pastors are entrusted with training and preparing believers for active ministry. Their role isn’t to shoulder all the work but to empower and enable the entire congregation to utilize their spiritual gifts, serving both within the church and the wider world.
  • Building up the body of Christ: Pastors equip, strengthen, and steer the church’s growth. Their focus encompasses both numerical increase and spiritual maturation.
  • Attaining unity in the faith and the knowledge of the Son of God: Through the faithful ministry of pastors, believers are guided toward a deeper, unified comprehension of Christian truth and a more profound, intimate knowledge of Jesus Christ. This unity defends against division and promotes doctrinal soundness.
  • Becoming mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ: Pastors serve as spiritual guides, leading believers toward profound spiritual maturity, shaping them to increasingly reflect Christ’s character and conduct. This involves moving beyond spiritual infancy, becoming firmly established in faith, and not being easily swayed by deceptive teachings.

While Ephesians 4:11-13 directly articulates these core functions, the qualities of knowledge, wisdom, care, concern, mentorship, and intercessory prayer are inherently woven into the fabric of a pastor’s role and are indispensable for fulfilling the passage’s mandates. The ability to “equip God’s people” and lead them to “unity in the faith” necessitates a pastor’s knowledge of Scripture, enabling them to teach truth and safeguard the flock from error, as warned in verse 14.

Beyond knowledge, wisdom is essential for applying biblical truth to life, guiding individuals through challenges, and discerning God’s will. The very term “pastor,” derived from the Greek “poimenas” (shepherd), intrinsically implies profound care and concern for the flock—a vital nurturing aspect for “building up the body of Christ.” Mentorship is a natural outgrowth of equipping and leading to maturity, as pastors guide, train, and model Christ-like living. Furthermore, a pastor’s spiritual leadership and deep care for their flock inherently involve intercessory prayer, a fundamental aspect of pastoral care and a key way they “serve” and “build up” the body.

A Deeper Dive

Pastors offer critical protection from false teaching and cultivate spiritual discernment. Ephesians 4:14 explicitly states, “Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming.” Through sound teaching and unwavering commitment to biblical truth, pastors act as shields against errant doctrines.

The divine gift of leaders also establishes order and stability within the church. Pastors, as overseers, contribute to the healthy functioning of the community by providing spiritual guidance, resolving conflicts (Matthew 18:15-17), and ensuring smooth operations. Their role also encompasses encouragement and, when necessary, loving admonishment, both crucial for “building up the body of Christ” (1 Thessalonians 5:12-13; Titus 2:15).

Pastors bless the congregation by modeling Christ-like character, serving as living examples of integrity, humility, and faithfulness (1 Timothy 3:1-7; Titus 1:5-9). By equipping saints for ministry, pastors actively cultivate a culture of service, transforming the church from a passive “consumer” entity into a vibrant, “contributing” body. Their primary means of equipping is through spiritual growth fostered by preaching and teaching—regular, clear, and challenging exposition of God’s Word that nourishes believers and prompts them to apply biblical truths. As shepherds, pastors offer vital pastoral care and support, providing comfort, guidance, and assistance during times of crisis, grief, and personal struggle. Finally, when pastors effectively lead and teach, they foster unity in purpose and mission within the congregation. They foster a shared vision for reaching the lost, serving the community, and glorifying God.

The prevalent disconnect between the average churchgoer and their understanding of church leadership isn’t merely a semantic oversight; it represents a profound missed opportunity for spiritual growth, support, and community. By failing to recognize faith leaders as divine gifts, specially appointed by Christ to equip, build up, and unify His body, we inadvertently limit our own access to the very resources necessary for a vibrant and mature faith.

Embracing the biblical truth that pastors are heaven-sent provisions unlocks a wealth of knowledge, wisdom, protection, and intercession designed to help us flourish personally and collectively. When we move beyond viewing faith leaders as mere institutional figures or emergency contacts and instead see them as cherished, God-given guides, we open ourselves to the transformative power of a healthy, Christ-centered relationship. This relationship propels us toward spiritual maturity and empowers us to fully participate in the glorious purpose of the church.

It’s time for the church to truly understand its leaders—not as employees of a building, but as integral, invaluable gifts, unwrapped and cherished for the building of God’s kingdom on earth.

A Father’s Gift, Generational Wisdom

A Father’s Gift, Generational Wisdom

Imagine a map to a truly flourishing life – not just existing, but thriving in every sense of the word. The ancient book of Proverbs offers precisely that: a father’s passionate plea to his children, a legacy of wisdom passed down through generations. This wisdom wasn’t born in a vacuum. It was forged through the lives of imperfect men who understood the profound importance of passing on invaluable attributes. This inheritance, far more precious than any material wealth, is comprised of character, faith, and practical discernment for navigating the complexities of this life.

From Jesse, a simple Bethlehem shepherd, came his son David. Jesse, despite his humble stature, instilled in David a deep-seated faith in God, an unyielding courage in the face of giants, and a shepherd’s heart that would later define his leadership. David, chosen by God as king, profoundly shaped his son Solomon, despite his own significant flaws and moral failures. David’s instruction to Solomon was not just about ruling a kingdom, but about pursuing wisdom above all else, practicing justice with integrity, and cultivating an unwavering devotion to God’s house and His law. Despite their imperfections, these men understood that true legacy is not accumulated riches. It is spiritual fortitude and practical guidance to live a divinely aligned life.. Their lives, with both triumphs and mistakes, served as powerful lessons.

It is in Proverbs 4 that we witness a father’s guidance for daily living, rooted in the fear of the Lord, for his son (children). Here, likely Solomon is recalling his own father David’s instruction and perhaps even the heritage from Jesse imploring his son to embrace wisdom as a vital, life-sustaining force. Proverbs 4 makes three essential points for navigating life successfully: Pursue Wisdom, Protect the Heart, and Stay on the Path of Righteousness. These aren’t mere suggestions; they are commands for a blessed life.

The culmination of wisdom and a guarded heart leads us directly to the intentional path of righteousness, as powerfully articulated in Proverbs 4:24-27. This section provides actionable guidance on how our internal state translates into our external conduct, focusing on three crucial areas: the words we speak, the things we allow our eyes to see, and the actions we take with our feet. This isn’t about passive goodness but active, deliberate choices that shape our character and destiny.

First, the proverb admonishes us to guard our speech: “Put away from you crooked speech, and put devious talk far from you” (v. 24). Our words are a direct, often unfiltered, outflow of our heart. If our heart is carefully guarded and filled with wisdom, our speech will naturally reflect truth, integrity, and righteousness. However, if our heart is corrupted, our words will quickly follow suit. “Crooked speech” encompasses dishonesty, manipulation, and gossip – words that twist the truth or seek to undermine others. “Devious talk” includes flattery that deceives, promises made without the intention to keep them or any form of communication designed to mislead or harm. Such language inevitably leads to broken trust, damaged relationships, and a compromised character. We must constantly examine our communication: Are our words truthful, edifying, and pure? Do they build up or tear down? The way we speak reveals the true condition of our inner being and profoundly impacts our interactions with the world around us.

Secondly, we are instructed to guard our gaze: “Let your eyes look directly forward, and your gaze be straight before you” (v. 25). Our eyes are often called the windows to our soul, serving as a primary gateway through which external influences enter our minds and hearts. What we choose to look at, read, and consume visually profoundly shapes our thoughts, desires, and, ultimately, our actions. A focused, straightforward gaze implies integrity, clear purpose, and unwavering direction. It means we are not easily distracted by evil, temptation, or the fleeting allure of that which is impure or detrimental. This admonition is more critical than ever in a world saturated with visual stimuli. Are we fixing our eyes on what is pure, lovely, and good, thereby feeding our souls with truth and inspiration? Or are we allowing our gaze to wander, to linger on things that defile, distort our perception of reality, or distract us from our righteous path and core values? Intentionality in what we permit our eyes to behold is a vital defense for the heart.

Finally, and perhaps most encompassing, we are called to guard our steps: “Ponder the path of your feet; then all your ways will be sure. Do not swerve to the right or to the left; turn your foot away from evil” (v. 26-27). This is the practical outflow of a wise and guarded heart—our actions, our life’s journey. To “ponder the path of your feet” means deliberatelyassessing and leveling our course. It’s not about impulsive action but intentional planning, thoughtful consideration, and regular self-assessment to ensure our direction is stable and certain. Consider the analogy of a clear, straight road versus a winding, treacherous one. Righteousness is the straight, well-laid path that leads to security, peace, and blessing. Evil, on the other hand, represents any deviation, any swerving to the right or to the left, that will undoubtedly lead to peril, regret, and, ultimately, destruction. Even seemingly minor deviations can lead to significant departures from our intended destination. Are we living intentionally, making conscious choices about our direction, or are we haphazardly drifting through life, swayed by convenience or popular opinion? Are our daily actions aligned with God’s word and the wisdom we claim to pursue, or are we veering off into compromise, succumbing to the subtle temptations that pull us away from the path of integrity?

The father’s impassioned plea in Proverbs 4 is not merely an ancient historical record. It is a timeless blueprint for a truly flourishing life. Just as Jesse passed on enduring faith and courageous spirit to David, and David in turn instilled in Solomon the profound pursuit of wisdom and the practice of justice, this invaluable legacy of spiritual and practical guidance continues through the generations. By actively pursuing wisdom as a lifelong endeavor, diligently protecting our hearts from corrupting influences, and intentionally walking the path of righteousness—guarding our speech with truth, our gaze with purity, and our steps with purpose—we embrace the very principles these biblical fathers championed. This profound wisdom, imperfectly yet faithfully transmitted from one generation to the next, remains as vital today as it was when first uttered, guiding us towards a blessed and purposeful existence.

How might you begin to apply this timeless wisdom in your own life today?

Wrestling the Unseen 

Wrestling the Unseen 

The ancient city of Ephesus, a bustling hub of commerce and diverse spiritual practices, was no stranger to the shadows of the unseen world. As recorded in the Book of Acts, when the Apostle Paul ministered there, he encountered an unusual and striking amount of demonic activity. This historical backdrop, where spiritual forces overtly manifested, serves as a powerful reminder that our world, even today, is a battleground where unseen powers vie for influence and control. Our struggle, as Ephesians 6:12 declares, “is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” This passage compels us to acknowledge spiritual warfare’s reality and equip ourselves for the fight.

The Pervasive Reality of Spiritual Conflict

To effectively stand against the devil’s schemes, we must first come to terms with the undeniable reality of evil spirits, or demons, and their capacity to possess people. This reality isn’t a phenomenon confined to ancient texts or distant lands; it is a spiritual truth that transcends all faith traditions. Temples, synagogues, mosques, and churches—no sacred space is entirely immune to their influence. We shouldn’t find it strange to occupy a pew with a person grappling with an evil spirit.

Consider the stark illustration in Luke 4:33-35, where a man possessed by an impure spirit cried out in a synagogue, “Go away! What do you want with us, Jesus of Nazareth? Have you come to destroy us? I know who you are—the Holy One of God!” This biblical account underscores a critical truth: if demon-possessed individuals can be found in the temple, and if God in Jesus Christ is present at church, what makes us think demons can’t find our addresses? Those possessed by evil spirits are everywhere; they are in the White House, the Senate, Congress, police stations, schools, and city hall.Disturbingly, they are even in the church, some in Sunday school, and for some of us, they are in our very homes.

The sole aim of this adversary is to destroy the God-given potential within you. Evil is hellbent on ensuring that you never realize the power you possess as a child of God. The Bible consistently depicts the violent and destructive nature of demons toward those they possess. In Acts 19, an evil spirit jumped on several Jewish exorcists, overpowering them and sending them running, stripped of their clothes and dignity. Another account describes a demon throwing a possessed man down in front of the Lord Himself. These vivid narratives highlight the tangible impact of spiritual oppression.

Three crucial understandings about evil emerge from these encounters, each vital for effective spiritual engagement: 

Evil is Strong and a Bully: This isn’t a passive force we can ignore. Evil is an active, aggressive entity that will relentlessly wrestle to overpower you or your loved ones. It seeks to dominate, control, and ultimately destroy. Recognizing its strength means we approach spiritual warfare with a sober awareness of the formidable opposition, preventing us from underestimating its tactics or becoming complacent. It’s a reminder that we cannot fight this battle with just our own strength. 

The Person Possessed Is a Victim, Not an Enemy: This distinction is profoundly important. When we encounter individuals under demonic influence, our posture should be one of compassion, not condemnation. The evil Spirit is the aggressor; the person is merely its host, a captive suffering under its oppression. Discerning this allows us to direct our spiritual efforts toward the deliverance of the victim, focusing our compassion and prayers on their freedom rather than viewing them as the antagonists. 

Evil Recognizes and Submits to the Authority of Jesus Christ: This is the cornerstone of our hope and the ultimate key to victory. Despite its strength and bullying nature, evil is not sovereign. Every demonic entity, every spiritual force of darkness, is ultimately subordinate to the power and authority of Jesus Christ. This truth empowers believers when we operate in the authority granted to us through Christ. Even the most formidable evil is compelled to submit. It means our victory is assured, not through our might, but through the indisputable power of our Lord.

Failing in the Fight

Despite the clear reality of spiritual warfare and the power available through Christ, many struggle to engage in the fight effectively. One significant reason lies in a misapplication of spiritual authority, as exemplified by the sons of Sceva in Acts 19:13. These Jews, who “went around driving out evil spirits, tried to invoke the name of the Lord Jesus over those who were demon-possessed.” They would declare, “In the name of the Jesus whom Paul preaches, I command you to come out.”

However, their efforts backfired catastrophically. As commentators note, Sceva was likely not a legitimate Jewish high priest but perhaps a self-styled leader of a pagan cult who found it profitable to pose as a Jew. His “sons” attempted to wield the name of Jesus like an unfamiliar weapon, and it exploded in their hands. They were taught a brutal lesson about the danger of using the name of Jesus superficially or opportunistically, dabbling in the supernatural. Their lack of genuine connection and authority rendered their invocation powerless. This ancient account illuminates a contemporary problem. We are failing in the fight because we are faking in the fight. Many have Jesus on their lips, but their hearts are far removed from Him. We may maintain a form of godliness, adhering to outward religious practices, but we deny its inherent power. Such a state leaves us utterly unfit for the spiritual battle. Knowing about Jesus is not enough; we must know Him intimately, have a genuine relationship, and walk in His authority.

Fighting to Win

Now to the foundational call of Ephesians 6:10-17: “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes… Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.“

To effectively stand, Paul instructs us on the specific parts of this divine armor: 

Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist: Just as a belt holds a soldier’s tunic and other gear in place, truth provides stability and integrity to our spiritual lives. The unwavering foundation of God’s Word grounds us in reality, protecting against the deception and lies of the enemy. 

With the breastplate of righteousness in place: A breastplate protects the vital organs. Righteousness, imputed (Christ’s righteousness credited to us) and practical (living according to God’s moral standards), guards our hearts and consciences against accusation and guilt, ensuring our spiritual vitality. 

And with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace: Soldiers needed sturdy footwear for long marches and battle. Our readiness to spread the good news of peace with God and to live in that peace provides us with stability and purpose, enabling us to advance spiritually and withstand the enemy’s assaults. 

In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one: A shield protects the entire body from incoming attacks. Faith is our active trust and confidence in God, serving as a protective barrier that deflects and nullifies the fiery temptations, doubts, and accusations that the enemy hurls our way. 

Take the helmet of salvation: The helmet protects the most vulnerable part of the body—the head. Salvation, our assurance of God’s deliverance and eternal life through Christ, guards our minds from despair, fear, and confusion, keeping our thoughts fixed on God’s victorious plan. 

And the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God: This is the only offensive weapon in the armor. The Word of God, inspired by the Holy Spirit, is sharp and powerful. It allows us to actively engage the enemy, counter false doctrines, and dismantle strongholds, not just defending but advancing God’s kingdom.

The solution to our failing in the spiritual fight lies not in rituals or borrowed power but in authentic faithfulness to our Lord Jesus Christ. We must be intentional and have an empowered readiness for the unseen war. To stand in the strength of God’s power requires more than words; it demands a life fully yielded to Him, clothed in His divine armor, and ready to engage the spiritual forces that seek to overpower us. By consciously putting on and utilizing each piece of this spiritual armor, we are not merely defending ourselves but actively demonstrating the mighty power of the Lord in our lives.

Just a Little While

Just a Little While

The human heart yearns for arrival. From the impatient child in the backseat, “Are we there yet?” to the adult wrestling with life’s profound challenges, the question echoes: “Lord, how long until my breakthrough? When will this season of waiting finally end?” This persistent inquiry is not a sign of weakness, but a testament to our innate desire for resolution, for the fulfillment of God’s promises in our lives. Yet, what if our “arrival” is not solely a matter of God’s timing, but also intimately connected to our posture in the pause? To uncover the profound purpose embedded within our periods of anticipation and trial, let’s turn to a passage of immense comfort and challenge: 1 Peter 5:6-11 (NIV). Peter, writing to believers undergoing severe persecution, offers not a quick escape, but a divine framework for flourishing within the furnace of affliction. He writes: “Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings. And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. To him be the power for ever and ever. Amen.” This “suffering” Peter speaks of is not merely fleeting discomfort, but a comprehensive term for the trials, hardships, and pains that often accompany a life of faith. It’s the prolonged illness, the chronic financial strain, the fractured relationship, the seemingly unanswered prayer. Our deepest struggle isn’t always the presence of difficulty itself, but the agonizing duration of the wait for its resolution. Yet, within these verses, God Himself offers a transformative lens through which to view our “lingering hardships,” revealing their meaning, purpose, and most importantly, their divinely appointed end.

Peter doesn’t leave us languishing in our impatience; he provides a clear, actionable pathway to navigate the waiting room of life with grace and strength. The first, and perhaps most crucial, step is to humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand.” Humility, in this context, is not self-deprecation, but a profound acknowledgment of God’s absolute sovereignty and our complete dependence on Him. It means releasing our grip on control, relinquishing our prideful attempts to orchestrate our own breakthroughs. We often believe that if we just strategize harder, work longer, or worry more intensely, we can accelerate our arrival. But Peter reminds us that true elevation—”that he may lift you up”—comes in “due time,” God’s perfect time, not our own. This humbling posture leads directly to the second command: “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” Our anxieties are often the direct result of our perceived lack of control. When we humbly acknowledge God’s “mighty hand” over every circumstance, we empower ourselves to genuinely lay down our burdens. The Greek word for “cast” here (epiriptó) implies a decisive, once-and-for-all throwing off. It’s not a polite handing over, but a forceful release. Why can we do this? Because He cares. This isn’t a passive interest; it’s an active, compassionate, fatherly concern that embraces every detail of our lives. When we fully grasp His care, the weight of waiting, though still present, becomes immeasurably lighter. We are suffering the wait, yes, but never without the intimate presence and unwavering support of the Almighty.

As we humble ourselves and cast our anxieties, Peter issues a vital warning: “Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” Our periods of waiting and suffering are not merely passive experiences; they are battlegrounds. The adversary, ever vigilant, seeks to exploit our vulnerability, to plant seeds of doubt, despair, and discouragement. He wants us to believe God has forgotten us, that our faith is futile, that our suffering is pointless. Being “alert and of sober mind” means exercising spiritual discernment. It means guarding our thoughts, saturating ourselves with truth, and recognizing the enemy’s insidious tactics. How often do we see individuals, just on the cusp of a breakthrough, succumb to temptation or discouragement, thereby missing their divine appointment? Satan’s objective is to ensure we never arrive at God’s intended destiny. He seeks to derail us, to convince us that our purpose is unattainable. But Peter assures us that “resistance” is possible, by “standing firm in the faith,” and by remembering that our “family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings.” We are not alone in this fight; there is strength and solidarity in our shared journey.

This is where the true glory of the passage shines through, offering not just a promise, but a divine guarantee: “And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.” The phrase “a little while” is crucial. In the context of eternity, even a lifetime of suffering is but a fleeting moment. God, who is “the God of all grace,” will not allow our suffering to be in vain. He is actively working within our waiting. This promise is rich with transformative verbs: He will restore what is broken, heal what is wounded, and bring back what was lost. He will make you strong as our weakness in suffering becomes the crucible for divine strength, forging resilience we could not have otherwise gained. He will make us firm, establishing us with a solid footing, ensuring our faith is unshakeable; the KJV’s “establish you” perfectly captures this sense of foundational stability. Finally, He will make us steadfast, resolute and unwavering, enabling us to stand firm against future trials. There is, indeed, a profound purpose in waiting. It is in the “agony of the wait” that our character is refined, our faith deepened, and our dependence on God solidified. The Lord, in His infinite wisdom, knows that if success comes too easily, without the crucible of patience and perseverance, we might not appreciate its value, nor possess the inner fortitude to sustain it. He desires for us not fleeting victories, but a “firm footing on life’s triumphs”—an enduring success built on a foundation of tested faith. So, the next time you find yourself asking, “Are we there yet, Lord?” take heart. You are not stuck; you are in a divine process. Humble yourself under His mighty hand, casting every anxiety upon Him because He deeply cares. Be vigilant against the enemy’s schemes, standing firm in the knowledge that you are part of a global family of faith. Trust that the “little while” of your suffering is a purposeful prelude to God’s glorious work of restoration, strengthening, firming, and establishing you. To Him be the power forever and ever. Amen.

Grown Folk Thinking

Grown Folk Thinking

We learn very early that there are things in life designated as “grown folk stuff.”  Once there existed delineation between the activities of “young folk” and grown folk. Sometimes you wouldn’t know what was reserved for grown folk until you threatened to intrude on it. There were no signs that said, “For Grown Folk Only.”  As a child, you were mostly left to decipher what was grown folk stuff with nothing more than the use of your common sense.  If you saw what looked like as glass of orange juice sitting on a table late in the evening while the Blues blared in the background you’d better stay clear of it. It was highly probably that what was in that glass was for grown folks.  If you suffered the lack of such wisdom, and placed your hand near that glass you would pay a heavy price for grown folk encroachment. Friday’s dawn would usher in grown folk time.  All activities were geared toward the satisfaction of grown folk.  Young folk were thought to have all week to have fun, but Friday night belonged to the grown folk. The music was “grown folk music”, the conversation was “grown folk conversation” and everybody knew what time it was; or whose time it was. So, we thought that being grown meant being old enough to stay up late, drink liquor, smoke cigarettes and listen to the Blues. It would take a lot of living to discover that none of those activities made one grown.  Rather, being grown had more to do with how you carried yourself. To be considered grown you had to know stuff like how to wear your clothes, when to speak and when not to, how to control your emotions, how to show proper respect, and overall how to behave in any social settings.  Basically, grown folk thought and behaved a certain way. 

If you paid attention you could always spot a grown folk impersonator.  There were always a few at every gathering.  You know the type; they would try to look the part, but would quickly be found out.  Either the females put on too much make-up, or the males couldn’t “hold” their liquor. My favorite was when an impersonator would say something trying to sound grown, but end up sounding stupid. The impersonator’s age may have gotten them pass curfew, but they surely were not considered to be grown among the seasoned adults.  It was obvious that some in the grown folk crowd had a little more living to do in order to be worthy of Friday’s dawn.   Impersonators fail to realize that there exists something called grown folk thinking; which cannot be ascertained by an age number. Those who want to be considered grown had better develop a grown-up’s way of thinking. 

The way one begins to think like a grown-up is by first evaluating her or his current thinking status.  That is, to begin asking questions about one’s current view the world. Questions such as: Do you see the world in terms of right versus wrong? Is everything either black, or white?  Do you think that everything should have reasonable explanation? Do you need to know that there are facts that support everything you consider true? If your answer is “yes” to the majority of these you may be old enough to stay up past curfew, drink alcohol, smoke and listen to explicit music, but you are not grown yet.  Education Researcher William Perry Jr. would say that you are at the lowest level of cognitive development.  In other words, you may certainly be an adult by societal standards, but you are still not thinking like a grown-up. Seeing the world in a simplistic way, such as believing that there is only right and wrong, is viewed as absolutism.  Grown folk know that the world has far too many mysteries for us to limit it to absolutes. To think about the world in absolute terms is to shrink existence to the theories of a few gifted intellectual pioneers. Absolutists lack the ability to think critically in the face of real-life conflict.  When confronted with issues like abortion people who think at the lowest cognitive development stage will look to someone else to help them navigate this moral dilemma. A grown-up impersonator at this stage seeks evidence that support their point of view while dismissing evidence that contradict it.  Their world view is largely constructed with a series of biases they have collected from others. Like children, absolutists’ thinkers rely too heavily on others to decipher life.

The good news is people can graduate from this stage. The bad news is most people don’t. Reason being, it is the only mode of thinking they know. Most people find comfort in simplicity, and resist putting their belief system to the test.  Good or bad, right or wrong, they stay where they are.  Never growing up, looking grown, acting grown, but thinking like a child. 

Others who are not afraid to challenge their orientation to life will move to the second stage of cognitive development.  Psychologists refer to this way of thinking as relativism.  These people believe opposite of Absolutists. Relativists think that all truth is relative. Every opinion matters and no one is qualified to judge the perspective of another.  For the relativist the world is vast and cannot be limited to absolutes.  The problem with this mode of thinking is it does not welcome challenge.  Relativists do not like having their ideas challenged or judged. When it comes to controversial issues these thinkers become argumentative, combative and contrary.  Basically, they throw a fit. For this reason, relativist should not hang out with grown folk.

Though relativists can be hard to keep calm they are far better at reasoning than absolutists.  One can have an enriched conversation with relativists; which creates the opportunity for growth.  Thus, there is hope that they will be grown someday.  Being grown would mean that one has reached the highest level of cognitive development, Commitment.  Simply stated, grown folk commit.  Grown folk know that in our world there are a lot of grey areas.  Grown folk also know that all ideas and opinions are not equally valid.  Experts and authority figures make mistakes, and will continue to. Grown folk are aware that uncertainly is woven in the fabric of life, but life must persist in spite of the unknown.  A position can be taken in life as being correct up until it is deemed wrong. When that time comes grown folk are flexible enough to make the necessary adjustment.  Somehow as we mature we understand more fully how complex the world really is. However, grown folk develop the critical thinking skills necessary to cope with an ever changing world that oxymoronically remains the same. People at this stage of commitment thinking accept responsibility for their actions based on what they believe; as a matter of choice. For the grown folk the locust of truth resides within.  Grown folk are not put-off by challenges to their belief system, and view confrontation over ideas as unnecessary.  They are not drunk with their own worldview. Grown folk make room for other perspectives to coexist with their own convictions.  In other words, they know how to “hold their liquor.” When confronted with crisis, controversy, calamity, or the complexities of life we should be ever careful not to intrude on grown folk conversation; though we can legally stay up past curfew.     

 Read (I Corinthians 13:11-12)

Solid Witness

Solid Witness

As we progress in postmodernity more Americans, than ever, are asking why Christianity is still so prevalent in our time. Believers in Jesus Christ are being mocked by a growing cynicism that asserts far too many Americans are still unintelligently infatuated with Jesus in the new millennium. There are a multitude of explanations for why our critics think we are silly for still believing in what they consider fairy tales about the deity of Jesus. The biggest reason critics of Christianity cannot comprehend our commitment to our faith is because they grossly underestimate the power of solid witness.

It is because of solid witness Christianity is prevalent today. Without the witness of Jesus’ resurrection Christianity may have died on the cross a forgotten fable. But, after his execution Jesus visited his followers. Like usual, he was met with disbelief. According to the witness in the Gospel of Luke Jesus put on a demonstration of his “realness” by urging people to touch him to ensure them that they were not seeing a ghost. The same Gospel records Jesus eating a piece of broiled fish; post execution. This is not to say that there were not times in which the witness made claims about Jesus appearing in a mysteriously inexplicable way after he died. Rather, it is to say that Jesus did appear resurrected as a solid being. After his death Jesus briefly appeared as one that could be seen plainly, and touched physically. He ate food, and he had apparent wounds. Christianity is alive today because of the testimony of former-unbelieving people who witnessed a solid Jesus Christ, pre and post his crucifixion.

Our critics should be aware that Christianity was birthed out of a milieu of skepticism, unbelief and scrutiny. Different from today, the consequences of making false claims about God in the First Century were deadly. Those who held claim to the extraordinary occurrences of Jesus had far more to lose than an exhaustive argument about who God is, or if God is. More difficult than accepting the professions of Jesus, is believing that multiple witnesses would be willing to die for telling imaginative stories. The testimony of those who witnessed Jesus Christ in the flesh is (1) solid in that they had far more to lose than to gain by fabricating events. Their witness is (2) solid in that they had no earthly incentive to tell such outrageous, socially unacceptable stories. Their witness is (3) solid in that they had to overcome their own doubt when encountering Jesus resurrected. In other words, it took some convincing on Jesus’ part to show that he was not a ghost, but solid. They witnessed a resurrected, solid Jesus.

Those of us who accept the testimony of Jesus’ disciples as solid witness know something that non-Christian intellectuals don’t. That is, critical thinking is not void of emotional intelligence. Just as sound decision-making requires that you use your head, it equally demands you use your gut (instinct). There are some things we simply cannot comprehend without first taking the risk of exercising faith. Sometimes we must put forth what we feel, apart from what we think. A skydiver never really knows whether her parachute is going to open until she takes a leap of faith. Thus, before jumping she is left to trust the testimonies of all those who leaped before her. Only after we decide to believe God in Jesus Christ will we be able to add to our faith knowledge. Christians know that when our intellect runs out our faith can carry us the rest of the way. This is not enough to convince a determined skeptic that Jesus was God incarnate. Nor is that the aim. The purpose is to illustrate that no intellectual pursuit will prove Jesus’ deity above the convicting testimony of a solid witness. We either believe the witness, or we don’t.

Jesus said to Thomas, after he demanded proof that Jesus had been resurrected, “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed (John 20:29).” Believers are blessed because we know that only after taking a leap of faith we can give solid witness of Jesus Christ. Christianity will remain to be prevalent as long as we continue to give solid witness. We need to be careful not to leave this generation, or the next to wrestle with the nature of God with nothing more than intellect. We must pass on to them what was given to us, the testimonies of solid witness.

Read: Luke 24:36-43 & John 20: 24-27

 

Tidying Up

Tidying Up

What do we know, teach and do about morality? In this expanding ideological society “morality” is becoming an increasingly ambiguous term. Though the term “moral” has never been one in which we could speak about definitively, there are some attributes of morality that we all ascribe to in common. At the basic level most people would agree that human beings ought to be kind and helpful to one another. The problem is we view this basic attribute as the pinnacle of moral standard. Contrary, kindness and helpfulness is the least we do to demonstrate our sense of morality. Kindness and helpfulness is where we begin in celebrating the evolution of our humanness, not where we end.

We fail miserably at the ground level of morality; which probably explains why most of us never reach beyond being kind and helpful to others. If we were to graduate from the ground level of morality we would find that there is more to it than the way we behave towards others. There is also the morality that exists within us for us. It is the way we temper our self-destructive behavior. Our internal morality should serve to warn us of the sins we commit against ourselves. To behave with moral integrity is to be kind to others while being kind to ourselves. How moral are we if we offer the best of ourselves to others, but inflict our mind, body and spirit with toxic pollutants (e.g. selfishness, drugs, cigarettes, profanity, laziness, porn, drunkenness, poor diet)?

Demonstrating moral integrity consist of being kind and helpful to both, others and ourselves. Perhaps, only after we master these two levels of morality can we truly advance to the third and final dimension. That is, living in peace with our Creator. The ultimate morality is to express continuous gratitude for being made. We express thankfulness by celebrating creation in its various forms, and honoring the Creator. Anything less than acknowledging and paying homage to that which is responsible for your existence is immoral.

These are the three levels of morality we must know, teach and do; be kind and helpful to others as well as to ourself, while paying homage to our Creator. It is evident in how we behave towards one another that what has been simply stated about morality here is proving to be increasingly difficult as we become more diverse in our thinking. Progress we must, but how far can we expect to advance if we fail to tidy up on morality?

Read Mark 7:21-23